Therapy Premature Ejaculation

Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual problem complained of by the majority of men and their partners. Someone said to suffer from premature ejaculation if he ejaculates before the moment of interest or too fast in relationships so as not to satisfy sexual partner.

Who is experiencing?

Among the most complained about this situation is teenagers, ages young adults, and men's sex is still very common knowledge. The risk increases in men with minimal sexual experience, lack of knowledge of male and female sex organs and the response which normally arise from both, and especially in people who
have psychological problems associated with the activity sexual, such as fear, tension, anxiety or guilt.

What causes Premature Ejaculation?

Premature ejaculation can be caused by many things, but perhaps lack of recognition that the primary cause is more biological. Normally, a man will reach a climax, and then ejaculates, 2 to 3 minutes after the hold penetration into the vagina. Meanwhile, a woman will reach a new normal climax, or orgasm, approximately 12 to 14 minutes after sexual relationship began. Viewed from this angle, actual ejaculation Early is not a disease, but rather a reasonable disorders arising from the different responses of men and woman during intercourse and knowledge held about them. In addition there are also factors Other psychological factors that could cause premature early. Psychological factors arise because the guilt for doing sex prematurely or not with her partner, a sense of fear associated with the possibility of pregnancy, contracting an STD (sexually transmitted diseases), AIDS, fear of being caught wet or seen by others, or the existence of conflicts unresolved internal disturbing psyche.

How to handle?

Treatment of premature ejaculation is mainly focused on approaches such as psychological counseling and sex therapy, considering that the main factor causes of premature ejaculation is due to lack of knowledge and experience as well as psychological factors. Need instilled that good sex is nature mutual, with good communication between the couple about what is wanted and unwanted, all risks are thought out, discussed and decided together, so that both parties feel comfortable and relaxed, so that satisfaction can be achieved with and no one felt more anxious or unhappy than other. Proved that with a partner who is open and feel
comfortable with one another, premature ejaculation is less common.

Other therapies that might be done is by doing special techniques such as method of 'stop and start' and methods press, which can help the man to learn delay ejaculation mechanically.

• Method "stop and start" involves sexual stimulation until at a time when the man was going to ejaculate, then
stimulation was stopped for thirty minutes and then back to its original state. This sequence is repeated several times until ejaculation the desired time arrives, and on this last time stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.

• Method of press (squeeze method) was done by conduct sexual stimulation until the man felt it would
ejaculates, then, at that time she or her partner press Gently tip of his penis for a while and hold stimuli
Sexual further for 30 seconds, and then proceed stimulation again. These sequences can be repeated by the man or partner until ejaculation desired by both, and at that stimulation can continue until ejaculation occurs.

In addition to options already mentioned, there are still some Another alternative to overcome premature ejaculation, such as hypnotherapy (Therapeutic hypnosis), the use of cream / ointment or topical medications
The traditional function of blood circulation and secretion gland. Antidepressants, and antipsychotics such antiansietas phenothiazine and fenoksibenzamin also proved beneficial for premature ejaculation sufferers, especially those caused by factors psychological.

In the end, we need to realize that although it is enough intrusive, premature ejaculation is not a disorder
serious, and can be overcome only with psychotherapy and counseling.